I ran into an acquaintance today, (the wife of one of Shaun's friends) who felt it necessary to tell me all about him. I tried to change the subject, asking about her job, the kids.. etc... but, she kept leading the conversation right back to him! When will people realize that I just don't care?! I don't want to hear about him!
After a lengthy story about the past 2 years, she proceeded to show me pictures of one of his gigs on her phone. I tried several times, to politely leave, but she was oblivious to my hints! One of last things I wanted, was to see a picture of the man who caused me so much pain! I was caught off guard and just didn't know how to express this without being curt.
Looking at a few of the pictures she shoved in my face, I have to say, I was surprised! What I saw on that iPhone, was a husky, long haired man, who appeared to have aged more than 20 years! WOW! I was totally shocked!! That was not the same man whom I had loved so deeply! He appears to have lost what little sense of style he had, (who the hell wears a suede hat in the middle of summer?? and a thin white t-shirt with "moobs"? Ugh!) That long straggly hair is very UNbecoming! Looks like a 60 year old hippy gave him some really bad advice! LMAO! I couldn't believe what I was seeing! How can a "30ish man" go from being hip, confident, and well groomed, with a sexy "Blake Shelton" look... to looking like an old man who grew up in 70's, trying to hang onto his youth? What an awful transformation! I am still in shock!