Saturday, July 28, 2012

Just a thought...

If every man (or woman) would keep this in mind, there may be less heartache...

Sunday, July 22, 2012

What an awful change!

I ran into an acquaintance today, (the wife of one of Shaun's friends)  who felt it necessary to tell me all about him.  I tried to change the subject, asking about her job, the kids.. etc... but, she kept leading the conversation right back to him!  When will people realize that I just don't care?! I don't want to hear about him! 
After a lengthy story about the past 2 years, she proceeded to show me pictures of one of his gigs on her phone.  I tried several times, to politely leave, but she was oblivious to my hints!  One of last things I wanted, was to see a picture of the man who caused me so much pain!  I was caught off guard and just didn't know how to express this without being curt. 
Looking at a few of the pictures she shoved in my face, I have to say, I was surprised! What I saw on that iPhone, was a husky, long haired man, who appeared to have aged more than 20 years! WOW! I was totally shocked!! That was not the same man whom I had loved so deeply!  He appears to have lost what little sense of style he had, (who the hell wears a suede hat in the middle of summer?? and a thin white t-shirt with "moobs"? Ugh!)  That long straggly hair is very UNbecoming!  Looks like a 60 year old hippy gave him some really bad advice! LMAO!  I couldn't believe what I was seeing! How can a "30ish man" go from being hip, confident, and well groomed, with a sexy "Blake Shelton" look... to looking like an old man who grew up in  70's, trying to hang onto his youth?  What an awful transformation!  I am still in shock!